As a mom of a child with a disability and special needs, I totally get it – managing all the appointments, therapies, and household responsibilities can make you feel like there aren’t enough hours in the day. That’s why you need to consider delegation.
Delegating tasks not only helps you manage your time better but also allows others to lend a hand and support you in your role as a caregiver. Many times, there are people in your life (family, friends, volunteers in your area) who really want to help, but they don’t know how.
So, here are some tips to help you delegate tasks and responsibilities like a pro!
1. Identify tasks that can be delegated:
First things first, take a look at your daily routine and see what tasks can be delegated to others. From folding laundry to fetching your child from school or scheduling appointments, there’s likely a lot that can be shared with others. Here’s a template you can use to identify which tasks you can delegate.
2. Find reliable helpers:
Once you’ve identified these tasks, look for reliable helpers you can trust to carry them out. This can be your family members, friends, volunteers from your community or church, or paid caregivers.
3. Provide clear instructions:
When delegating tasks, make sure you provide clear instructions on what needs to be done, how it should be done, and any specific requirements. Don’t forget to be specific about deadlines and expectations. If needed, follow up with your helper and give them feedback on how they can improve.
4. Let go of perfection:
As a special needs mom, it’s essential to let go of perfection and be open to different approaches and styles. Remember that the outcome is what matters most, and any help you receive is priceless. I know there are some things that need to be done in a specific way, but definitely not everything!
5. Show appreciation:
Don’t forget to show your appreciation to those who help you by expressing your gratitude and recognizing their efforts. A simple thank you can make all the difference and encourage them to keep helping you in the future.
6. Don’t be afraid to ask for help:
Last but not least, don’t be afraid to ask for help when you need it. You are not alone, and there are people who want to support you. Whether it’s asking a friend to watch your child for an hour or asking a family member to help with a specific task, remember that it’s okay to ask for help.
In conclusion, delegation is a fantastic tool for special needs moms to manage their time effectively and reduce stress in their daily lives. Remember, it takes a village, and by delegating tasks, you can focus on what matters most – caring for your loved ones.
